52 www. ReadMPM. com | www.MountPl easantMagaz i ne. com | www.MountPl easantPodcas t . com charleston women unaware of her menstrual rhythm; her cycle was anywhere from 35 to 50 days. In 2016, Carter got pregnant but unfortunately miscarried weeks later. After that, trying became a way of life. With a family history of infertility, Carter knew she could possibly need intervention. However, she was reluctant to subject herself to hormone and fertility treatments, citing her disdain for needles as the primary deterrent. She briefly considered in-vitro fertilization (IVF) at this point. However, when Carter was referred for initial fertility workups, tests were normal. They stayed the course and, before long, were pregnant without intervention again. Their son, Colton, was born in October 2018, and they were elated. Carter and her husband wanted to wait until Colton was older before they started trying once again. In the meantime, Carter found her way into functional medicine and started taking a holistic approach to her fertility. She focused on gut health, stress reduction and diet in the hopes of better preparing her body. Yet, Carter once again found herself frustrated by her inability to get pregnant. The couple considered various options for becoming parents again. They investigated the snowflake program, in which couples adopt embryos. In learning more, however, Carter decided that she would consider IVF before going that route. This past summer, Carter underwent IVF under the care of Dr. Cox at Adore Fertility in Mount Pleasant. She briefly went back on birth control to help regulate her menstrual cycle and then began self-administering hormone injections to increase follicle production. Meanwhile, her husband underwent testing and used functional medicine to optimize his fertility. After two rounds of IVF, Carter was not able to get pregnant. She recalls being devastated but trying to stay positive. Carter has been sharing her journey with infertility on social media to open and normalize conversation on the topic. As a physician, she tends to be pragmatic about the complex feelings surrounding medical treatments but recognizes the profound need for vulnerable discussion. The family has now decided to pursue adoption in the hopes that Colton will one day become a big brother. They looked into fostering before Colton’s arrival, so they were familiar with the process to some degree. While their journey with infertility was difficult and at times utterly disappointing, Carter is grateful and excited to grow her family. She’s thankful she has the means and the freedom to choose her path. Much like Carter, small business owner Lauren Owens also believes in sharing her infertility journey. Owens recognizes that every family struggling with infertility has their own story to tell. She and her husband Russell were married in 2016 and started trying to expand their family about a year later. As time went on, the couple continued to try but did not achieve pregnancy after many months. Owens began tracking her cycle and underwent preliminary testing. Anomalies were indeed found, and the couple was referred to Coastal Fertility Specialists in Mount Pleasant for treatment. They were excited to start a family and were grateful to be working with Dr. Heather Cook. Because of the findings, Owens chose to start IVF quickly. She remembers the “horrible yet wonderful” days of 40 or more hormone shots in preparation for retrieval. At age 32, the hormones aimed to stimulate Owens’ Lauren Owens , husband Rus se l l and son Al ex . Photo prov i ded.